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Four Tips To Navigate Your Way To Love

Have you ever wondered why you’ve kissed so many frogs and still haven’t found your Prince (or Princess)? Do you think to yourself “maybe I just attract jerks” or “I’m convince I will just stay single?” As a Christian Woman, I think it's incredibly hard to find a Man who is on the same wavelength as you....here are some well though about tips.


1. Accept That Healing Yourself Is a Prerequisite to Dating

You have to unpack that emotional baggage you are carrying around and heal so that you can not only be free from it but so that a potential suitor can see the awesome person that you are.


2. Become Aware of Your Triggers

Triggers are those behaviors or comments that typically have you running for the hills or holding on tight for dear life. Whether it be that your phone call or text message isn’t returned right away or it could even be something superficial like “he’s just too short.” Becoming aware of your emotional reactions to the things you thought of as your “standards” or deal breakers could get you one step closer to finding the love you want.


1. Accept That Healing Yourself Is a Prerequisite to Dating

You have to unpack that emotional baggage you are carrying around and heal so that you can not only be free from it but so that a potential suitor can see the awesome person that you are.


2. Become Aware of Your Triggers

Triggers are those behaviors or comments that typically have you running for the hills or holding on tight for dear life. Whether it be that your phone call or text message isn’t returned right away or it could even be something superficial like “he’s just too short.” Becoming aware of your emotional reactions to the things you thought of as your “standards” or deal breakers could get you one step closer to finding the love you want.


3. Evaluate Why You Think You Are Ready to Find Love

If you think a relationship will make you happy, will complete or validate you, think again. You must change your perspective on dating and enter into a relationship whole and emotionally healthy. We all have insecurities. But we must deal with these insecurities in a healthy way and not allow them to effect our budding relationship with someone.


4. Allow Yourself to Be Emotionally Available

That means, doing all of the above and severing all ties with all ex’s and friends with benefits. Can you think of one really good reason to keep them around? If they were so worthy of your time, why don’t they hold the official place in your heart of boyfriend?

It’s time to take charge of your love life. Time will pass anyway so why not start now. Take control and free yourself of unhealthy patterns that has led you nowhere. No excuses.


With love and service.


Andrea. xx

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